Be Daring

Have you ever driven an old car that broke down frequently. Usually when that happens, it means the car didn’t get as much care as it needed. Cars need maintenance. So do people.

If you value your relationship with your spouse, you have to spend some time and effort letting that person feel loved. Let them know how much you care about them.

Some people get used to being around each other, and they assume the other person knows how they feel. They might. But just as you have to change the oil in your car, you have to replace yesterdays good feelings with new good feelings for today.

Dare to do something different. Get out of the same old rut.

Spouses need relationship maintenance, but so do kids. If you constantly work late and miss your child’s special moments, figure out a plan that will transform that relationship. Dare to change your schedule to put someone else’s needs ahead of your own. Show up at your child’s school play.

Dare to love. Make sure the people around you feel loved. People thrive on affection. Who doesn’t enjoy a good hug?

Today’s goal is: Plan a special lunch with your spouse or your child. Maybe eat with your child at his school. Let them decide when and where (within reasonable limits), and then follow through.

Any relationship worth having is worth maintaining.